Hey my dearest oopspiniors!
Here’s the long awaited post for the boys! (at least one of you must be waiting for it right… I hope.) so yes, unlike what I did the previous post, this time, I surveyed the girls!
Lucky for my guy friends who still constantly flirt with the xmm (aka xiaomeimei ), I got some insights to how they feel and what they want for vday! Seriously, there’s a difference between xmm’s expectation and.. Erhem, grown up ladies like myself. Hahahahhahahaha!
So attention to all the guys who go for xmm, here you go! You’re welcome.
I shall start with the xmms opinion! (disclaimer: please do not mind the sarcasm, I’m being sour.)
First interviewee: Miss girl who wants to be known as mort, 17, student, single.
She wish to receive a letter, depicting how the guy (yes you, if you are reading) fell for her. How sweet? And she wish to have surprises under her desk, (what?! Desk?! These are the long gone days man) erm.. The best part is, she didn’t specify what gift! Defeat the purpose of the interview right? Kla I appreciated your inputs miss Mort, it makes me recall my faded memories when I was still schooling…
*flash back to my secondary school days*
During valentine….. I can still remember…..
Okay fine. The thing is, I shall say.. During my schooling days, im rather… Unappealing? (I refuse to say unattractive) don’t have a pic but here’s my pri sch pic. Don’t laugh!
So, there were no instances where I receive any love letter or any romantic gifts under my desk. Probably lollipops and sweets where we exchange during vday with our friends but that’s it. I guess my lack of allure is what led to a blank memory of being courted or confessed to, unless you count a guy who SMS me to be his “steady” on the first day of school as being courted. (I wonder if you read this? Hi if you know who you are)
Okay so anyway, miss Mort, I hope you get the perfect gift from the guy you like this valentine! (I’m genuinely wishing you best of luck, not being sour I swear)
Second interviewee: Miss I don’t know who she is (interviewed my friend but he didn’t mention bout her name), 17, student (I presume), single.
She stated that she doesn’t want anything, just want to spend time with him. Head down to the theaters or to the beach for a stroll. Yes, you read that? A beach. Probably cause she is still single, because single women, or xmm, fantasizes about romantic beach strolls. Or maybe I’ve already outgrown this fantasy when I’m attached.
Don’t mind me (it’s fairly my opinion), but if you go beach strolling in Singapore, you will see dirty oily sea (if you’re at changi, pasir ris, or east coast beaches), dirty bottles and plastic bags, bake yourself in the scorching hot sun, feel all sweaty and sticky, romantic not? Oh I forgot, you can’t wear nice shoes, you will dirty them.
The only time I went to the beach (sentosa, thank god it’s better despite of the constructions they have) with my bf is to bring our dogs out. I won’t say it’s romantic, but it’s fun seeing our dogs being so happy.
Of course, movie is one of the key things to do in Singapore, but on vday? How innovative. But not to blame, if you are single and scoring a chance to watch movie with the person you like is good enough.
I guess movie is one of the most common, important and easiest for first date. Firstly, movie includes going for a meal (mostly before the show cuz you have to kill time), so you get to flirt and check his background during your meal, then, when it gets awkwardly topic less to chat, it’s time for movie. It will keep you guys accompanied while you don’t have to crack your brain to think of what to say. So I guess, I agree on miss I-don’t-know-who-she-is, movie and dinner ( not the beach part though) would be awesome if a guy wants to confess to the girl on a vday. I mean it’ll be weird after you confess right? So it’s time for movie where you all can sit in silence and get your thoughts straight, then after the movie you all can talk about the movie to minimize the awkward confession and then it’s time for the guy to send the girl home and VUALAA! You guys Might even score your first kiss with her.
Moving on, we will interview the young adults. Yours truly will be included too, thankyouverymuch.
Third interviewee: Miss BiZhi (who else right?) 22, attached
BiZhi, 22, Attached
Guess BiZhi is abit greedy as she wants a weekend getaway! Fully sponsored by bf I think, (at least that’s what I want too)! Lol! Who knows what naughty things will you all do. Hmmmmmmm. Well sk (Her bf), are you reading this? It’s time to plan a trip!
Fourth interviewee: Miss Samantha (wrote one of our post as a special guest, here) 21, attached
Samantha, 21, Attached
Well as cliche as it is, she wants a card. You might think, same as the xmm what, but you’re wrong. She demanded that the card should at least contain 200 words. So Mr bf of sam, don’t try to smoke your way through by writing “I love you” and that’s all. We
girls erhem, young ladies are harder to pacify. I don’t think we are being too demanding, it’s just that we have different views and thinkings from xmm, not to blame the guys, I see why you all rather go for xmm.
Fift Interviewee: Miss Jane, 21, Single
Miss Jane, 21, Single
Well, I would say hers is some sort dramatic, must be under the influence of those korean shows. As drama as it is, she wants the guy (preferably Lee DongHae) to fight with her, and she ran away and he chased after her, it started to rain and BAM. It’s time for the guy to confess. (Start kissing and camera spinning round and round) Well, it will NOT happen in Singapore!
Sixth Interviewee: Yours Truly, 21, Attached.
Bernice, 21, Attached to KyuHyun
Okay, as for me… What do I want? Hmmmm.. Shout out to BF, I want the new iPod Nano, iPod touch even better (the one with front and back camera). LOL! Which I know you won’t buy it. Actually, what I want strongly depends on which guy were to confess to me. Lets say if it’s KyuHyun, I’ll probably die at the sight of him standing infront of me.
WAHHHHHHHHHHHH. If he sings will be BEST. I’m so in love.
Or lets say…. Siwon!
To appear topless. TSK TSK TSK.
Okay, i shall stop fantasizing.
Best advice for you guys, GO GET THOSE GUYS FACE AND BODY and you wont have to do anything on Vday.
Oopspinion – Bernice (Don’t hate me for this post as there are no relevance to what to give on Vday. Sorry i got carried away)